Love Catalyst
You care deeply about your relationship – and you’re ready for something to change.
Perhaps you love your partner, but something between you isn’t working the way you want it to.
You may find yourself overthinking your relationship, feeling disconnected, getting caught in the same patterns, or wondering why a relationship that matters so much has become so difficult.
And perhaps you’re the one who wants to work on things, while your partner isn’t ready.
You don’t have to wait for your partner before you begin.
Introducing Love Catalyst
Love Catalyst is a personalised three-month journey for people who want to understand what’s happening, create meaningful change and discover what genuinely works for them and their relationship.
Rather than only analysing what’s difficult, we’ll focus on where you want to be, what’s already helping and the changes you can make from your side.
Why three months?
Relationship patterns happen in everyday life, so that’s where much of the change needs to happen too.
Love Catalyst combines six 50-minute sessions, usually every two weeks, with small personalised experiments between sessions.
Explore → Try something different → Notice what happens → Adjust → Build on what works
The aim is for you to finish with greater clarity, a better understanding of your patterns and practical ways forward you can continue using.
Your Love Catalyst journey
Understand what’s happening
We start with where you are now, what you would like to be different and where change may be possible.
Work with your Love Blueprint
We’ll use your Love Blueprint to look more closely at how your patterns show up in your particular relationship – especially in moments where you feel stuck, disconnected or pulled into familiar responses.
If you already know your Love Blueprint, we’ll build on what you’ve discovered. If you don’t, you can take our free Love Blueprint Quiz, or we can explore these patterns as part of our work together.
Your Blueprint isn’t a label. It’s one lens we can use to understand what happens between you and your partner – and find practical ways forward that fit you.
Experiment with change
You’ll try small experiments in everyday life. What you notice helps us decide what to explore or try next.
Build what works for you
You’ll have access to our Connection Toolkit, a curated library of practical relationship tools and resources, with personalised recommendations along the way.
Together, we’ll build your Tools That Work for Me toolkit – the strategies and insights that genuinely make a difference for you.
My approach
My work is primarily solution-focused and centred around the changes you want to create.
Where helpful, I also draw on attachment theory, Gottman relationship research and other evidence-informed relationship approaches.
We can explore difficult experiences when they matter, while continuing to look towards where you want to go from here.
Can I do this if my partner isn’t ready?
Yes. You can still begin.
We can explore your experience of the relationship, what happens when things become difficult and what you can influence from your side.
When one person responds differently to familiar patterns, the dynamic between two people can begin to shift too. Whatever your partner chooses to do, you can develop greater clarity and practical ways of responding within your relationship.
What if we’re both ready?
If you both want to work on your relationship, we usually recommend coming together.
For couples, two practitioners work with the two of you – my husband Roman, a life coach, and me – giving both partners space to be heard and actively involved.
What’s included?
Your three-month Love Catalyst journey includes:
- 6 × 50-minute individual sessions
- Personalised experiments between sessions
- Working with your Love Blueprint
- Access to our Connection Toolkit
- Personalised resource recommendations
- Your own Tools That Work for Me toolkit
What clients say about working with me
“My relationship with my partner has never been better.”
“Bella’s ability to listen without judgement, combined with the practical tools and strategies she offered, helped me make meaningful changes in both my relationship and family life.”
“After working with Bella, I feel like I have my life back. I’ve never felt this peaceful within myself or my relationships.”
Investment
We begin with an initial 50-minute session for £48 to explore what’s happening, what you would like to be different and whether Love Catalyst feels like the right next step.
There is no obligation to continue.
Love Catalyst – standard price £598
For the complete three-month journey. Pay in full or across three monthly payments.
As a social enterprise, we offer three price tiers. You can choose the one that best reflects your current financial circumstances. View pricing options →
If you would value further support afterwards, there are options to continue working together.
You don’t have to wait for everything to change before you begin.
If you’re ready to understand what’s happening and explore what you can do from your side, we can start there.
Book your initial 50-minute session – £48
